When Katy and I were married, this was the song playing during our first dance together...
It is true, isn't it? Love is all you need.
And also, sometimes, it's no where near enough.
There will be more to write and share because this blog is really for our sons, and when they grow up, they deserve to know a bit more about the "say what now?" that we have set in motion. But tonight, it seems important to come clean on the Gin Soaked Olive...
Most of the last year has been a slow, heartbreaking dance of negotiation and decision (Katy's and my relationship hanging in the balance). As marriage equality, literally swept the country; as DOMA was overturned; as state after state leveled the legal playing field, it became more and more clear that our marriage was coming to an end. This Thanksgiving weekend brought to fruition the culmination of hundreds of hours of discussion and debate, and a physical split that has followed an emotional separation, a transfer of finances and home ownership, a filing for divorce.
In case I'm being too vague. We regret to inform our readers that, Katy and I have split up. Though we will always be a family, she has moved out of our home into a house she has purchased nearby, and we will share custody of Jake and Milo.
It is sad and difficult to explain. We have been and will continue to be as amicable as possible. We will always prioritize the health and happiness of our sons.
And I will attempt to stop writing on these pages using so much "we" and shift to the more appropriate, first person singular voice.
